feat(ipc): display control socket, stage 1: on-demand with acks

The display process now serves a Unix socket, /run/ledmatrix/control.sock,
carrying versioned newline-delimited JSON commands that are acknowledged.
Stage 1 moves on-demand start/stop (plus status, hello and ping) onto it;
the cache-file mailbox stays as the fallback for one release.

- src/ipc/contract.py: typed request/response envelopes, command args,
  error codes, NDJSON framing with a 64 KiB limit, socket path rules.
- src/ipc/server.py: threaded server owned by the display. Handlers only
  queue onto a bounded queue and ack with the request id; the render
  thread drains it where it reads the mailbox. Bounded clients, timeouts,
  garbage/oversize/disconnect handling; 0660 socket in the cache dir's
  group plus SO_PEERCRED checks; skips cleanly on Windows or when off.
- src/ipc/client.py: one short-timeout request; any failure raises
  ControlError(reason).
- api_v3/display.py: on-demand start/stop try the socket, fall back to
  the mailbox exactly as before, and report transport/socket_error.
- display_controller.py: start/close the server; the mailbox handler body
  is extracted into _handle_on_demand_request and shared by both paths.
- docs/IPC_CONTROL_SOCKET.md: protocol, security model, stage plan.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

mypy-clean.txt

@@ -45,6 +45,10 @@ src/display_geometry.py
 src/dynamic_team_resolver.py
 src/exceptions.py
 src/font_usage.py
+src/ipc/__init__.py
+src/ipc/client.py
+src/ipc/contract.py
+src/ipc/server.py
 src/logging_config.py
 src/logo_downloader.py
 src/matrix_support.py