fix(display): thread-safety for deferred updates, BDF faces and follower image; one refresh default (#652)

- DisplayManager.defer_update()/process_deferred_updates(): one lock around
  every queue mutation (appends from the update thread were lost to the
  render thread's filter/slice reassignments); callables run outside it.
- FontManager and element_style no longer cache BDF freetype.Face objects
  process-wide (load_bdf_face caches them per thread); element_style's LRU
  is locked against get/move_to_end vs eviction races.
- limit_refresh_rate_hz default is one constant, DEFAULT_REFRESH_LIMIT_HZ =
  100 (the template's), for the library options, refresh_hz, the matrix
  guard, Vegas and scroll_config. Previously a missing key capped the panel
  at 90 while pacing assumed 100.
- Sync follower: the TCP thread queues the leader's scroll image; the render
  thread swaps image/array/width in between frames.
- update_display() error log rate-limited (traceback first, then once a
  minute with a count); swallowed DisplayController exceptions log at DEBUG.
- Root display_controller.py runs run.py via runpy.
- stream_manager: correct the RLock release comments; merge duplicate if.

Co-authored-by: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/vegas_mode/render_pipeline.py

@@ -16,6 +16,7 @@ from PIL import Image
 
 from src.common.scroll_config import solve_crisp
 from src.common.scroll_helper import ScrollHelper
+from src.matrix_support import DEFAULT_REFRESH_LIMIT_HZ
 from src.vegas_mode.config import VegasModeConfig
 from src.vegas_mode.geometry import separation_gap
 from src.vegas_mode.stream_manager import StreamManager
@@ -199,7 +200,7 @@ class RenderPipeline:
             hz = float(getattr(self.display_manager, 'refresh_hz', 0) or 0)
         except (TypeError, ValueError):
             hz = 0.0
-        return hz if hz > 0 else 100.0
+        return hz if hz > 0 else float(DEFAULT_REFRESH_LIMIT_HZ)
 
     def _refresh_hz(self) -> float:
         """The refresh to solve the crisp speed against: measured, else the cap."""